Ask NaijaOnPoint: My Husband Is Too Dirty; I Want A Seperate Room

We have been married for about 2-years now and have a child. We had a distant relationship so we didn't really live together for me to notice his dirty habit. I moved to his apartment few months after our wedding and since then, it been a terrible experience for me. He is just too dirty. doesn't wash his hands after using the toilet even when there are urine drops on his hands, he just wipes with his trouser, we have two bathrooms, one for each room. Initially we were sharing one bathroom but I had to stop using it because of him. After toileting, he will not wash with brush even when there is soap and water and the toilet bowl is splattered with his feaces. He said its beneath him to wash the toilet, that how can a man wash the toilet? I had to switch to my ownership bathroom which thankfully has a toilet. He uses his for as long as 3-months without washing neither toilet or bathroom. I was washing it before but I just had to stop when he said its beneath him to wash his own toilet, that its a woman's duty.

Secondly he is too unkept and lives a scattered life, throws clothes anywhere, can wear one sleeping trouser for one month. After sex, he will use the same trouser to wipe his manhood and still wear it, can sleep on an unmade bed for as long as possible. Never makes the bed insisting its the duty of a woman to make the bed every night. Most times when he sleeps before me, I wake him up so I will make the bed, he will ask why didn't I make the bed before he slept, that I should make only the part that I want to sleep on with our baby. Its all irritating and the worse of all is after I complain like forever, he says he is a Yoruba man that he is used to dirtiness. I should get used to it. I dated a Yoruba man before I met him and that man is a direct opposite, neat to a fault. So I know its not an issue of him being a Yoruba man.

This man will drink sachet water, and leave the sachet lying about for days, I was picking up all his trash before but I have since stopped after he repeatedly said that its my duty to pick up the dirt he throws anywhere he likes. He will have a trash basket right in front of him but will still drop dirt on the bare floor.

Early Last month, a nurse came around to take his blood sample for some test cos he wasn't feeling well, till now as i am writing this, the cotton wool he used to wipe the blood from the skin surface is still lying on his part of the wardrobe.

I am the type that encourages brushing the teeth twice a day but my hubby has refused to be doing it. He has a little mouth odour and will not help himself. He is always rubbing his manhood with his bare hands and uses same hands to touch everything in the house.

I sweep and mob the house regularly but he will just mess it up the minute am through. We have a second room we reserved for our kids but from the look of things, I am considering setting the room up for myself.

The funny thing about this is that outside, he is a seen as a clean man and very very good looking but inside, he is a dirty pig.